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The Original Pakk
A balanced collection, tailored to your relationship. Choose from three themes.
- Go Deeper Deck
- Laughter Deck
- Keep It Cute Coupon Kit
- Decision Dice
- Magnetic keepsake box
There's always more to discover about the people you love.
Pakks are sets made for every stage of your relationship: conversation decks, plus little extras that turn what you learn about each other into time together. Every deck holds 150 questions, backed by psychology and research.
15,000+ sold
Choose your Pakk
Pick the Pakk made for your stage, have it all, or keep it mini.
Best for gifting
Ultimate Connection Pakk
Our most complete collection of every customer favourite
- Go Deeper, Reconnect, Laughter and Forever Decks
- Appreciation Notes
- Keep It Cute Coupon Kit
- Decision Dice
- Magnetic keepsake box
Mini Pakk
One deck with light extras
- 1 deck of your choice
- Decision Dice
- Travel Pouch
- Keepsake box not included
$97 value You pay $89 Save $8
Two prompts from the decks: What moment of your life do you wish you could live again? What’s one thing you’ve never told anyone?
Made for real life
All it takes is a few minutes together, on any ordinary day.
Sunday coffee. One card each before the day gets busy.
The long drive. Phones down, one question, and the next hour flies by.
Date night at home. Takeaway on the couch, and something better to talk about than work.
After the kids are asleep. Ten quiet minutes that are just for you two.
Holidays. Pop a few cards in your bag and see where the conversation goes.
Dinner with friends. The Laughter Deck has questions for the whole table.
For date nights. For dinner tables. For the nights that end on the couch. Made to be left out,picked up and used.
One card is all it takes to start. The rest will be right there next time.
Or build your own
Pick any mix of our five decks. The more you choose, the more you save.
| Decks | Price | You save |
|---|---|---|
| 1 deck | $64 | 0 |
| 2 decks | $99 | $29 |
| 3 decks | $129 | $63 |
| 4 decks | $159 | $97 |
| 5 decks | $189 | $131 |
Ships free from 3 decks
Which deck is for you?
Go Deeper Deck
Get past small talk, light to bold.
$64
- 150 questions in three spice levels: light, medium and bold
- Made for couples together a year or more
Add Go Deeper DeckTry a few real cards
Spice level 1 of 3.What’s something you hope we never lose sight of, no matter how busy or successful we become?
Now & Then
Reconnect Deck
Honest questions for feeling close again.
$64
- Refreshed with help from our customers
- Helps you talk about what you each need
Add Reconnect DeckTry a few real cards
Spice level 2 of 3.Is there an old text, letter, or message from me that you still treasure (or remember vividly)? What made it special?
Rediscover & reflect
Laughter Deck
Silly, cheeky questions for big laughs.
$64
- Light icebreakers to a few cheeky ones
- Works for couples and groups of friends
Add Laughter DeckTry a few real cards
Spice level 2 of 3.If left in their space alone, are you the type who snoops through someone’s things?
Icebreakers
Forever Deck
Big conversations for planning a life together.
$64
- Values, money, family and boundaries
- Made to come back to as life changes
Add Forever DeckTry a few real cards
Spice level 3 of 3.After we have a big argument, what do you need from me to feel better and truly put it behind us? (For example, a calm talk, an apology, a hug, or just some space?)
Values & Communication
Dating Deck
Get to know someone new, minus the awkwardness.
$64
- Playful to revealing
- From date two to your fifth weekend away
Add Dating DeckTry a few real cards
Spice level 2 of 3.What has surprised you most about me so far?
Light & Lively
15,000+ sold
Sold out 7x
4.9★
Why it works
We built Pakks on what relationship research says helps people feel close. Here's the short version.
Closeness grows a little at a time
In a well-known study, people who answered gradually deeper questions felt closer than people who stuck to small talk. That's why every deck starts light and gets deeper as you go.
Aron et al., 1997
Feeling close takes two people
Researchers following everyday conversations found closeness grows when one person opens up and the other responds with care. So every card is a turn to share and a turn to listen.
Laurenceau, Barrett & Pietromonaco, 1998
Small rituals add up
Couples who share little rituals report feeling happier and more committed, especially when they both agree on what the ritual means to them. One card over Sunday coffee counts.
Garcia-Rada, Sezer & Norton, 2019
All our customer favourites, in one box
The Ultimate Connection Pakk
Slow Sunday mornings, busy weeknights, dinners out and the evenings you just want to laugh. Four of our most-loved decks and three little extras, so there's something for every moment of an ordinary week.
- Go Deeper Deck
Was $64 - Reconnect Deck
Was $64 - Laughter Deck
Was $64 - Forever Deck
Was $64 - Appreciation Notes
Was $24 - Keep It Cute Coupon Kit
Was $29 - Decision Dice
Was $19 - Magnetic keepsake boxNot sold separately
$347 valueYou pay $229 Save $118
Everything arrives gift-ready in our premium keepsake box, which you can only get with the Original Pakk or the Ultimate.
Free shipping on orders over $100. The Ultimate qualifies.
Get the UltimateOur favourite gift for the couple who has everything.
What couples are saying
We can talk about anything, really. And we usually do! But I grabbed a few cards on date night, popped them in my bag, and it was great. We've been together 37 years. Now, my husband wasn't thrilled when I first brought them out, but we had such a good time once we started using them. It's the small things in a relationship that makes the big difference.
after 40 years together its like a rediscovery tour x
…Thankfully, my husband was willing to give it a go and it's been a lovely way to remember why we were attracted to one another 16 years ago and to have conversations that put some spark back into 'us'. We still have work to do but this has been surprisingly easy and I can see and feel the results already.…
The people you love are still full of surprises. You just need a reason to ask.
How it works
Choose your Pakk.
Step 01
Pick one for the stage you're in, or build your own set of decks.
Leave it out.
Step 02
The box is made to live on the coffee table, so it's there when you have a moment.
Pull one card.
Step 03
Read it out, take turns, and listen. Start light and go deeper when it feels right.
Do something with it.
Step 04
Leave a note, redeem a coupon, or let the dice pick dinner. Then come back to it another night.
Our 30-day connection promise
Give it a proper go. Pull a card on a quiet night, try the bold ones, leave a note somewhere unexpected. If it's still not for you after 30 days, send it back and we'll refund you.