The Forever Deck: an olive-sage box beside a hand fanning sage-bordered question cards on an ivory background

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For couples planning a life together

Forever Deck

Engaged, newly married or moving in? 150 questions help you talk through the everyday and the big stuff, like money, family and the future, before life decides for you.

150 questions
3 categories, light to deeper
Premium packaging
Gift-ready

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Talk through the big stuff before it matters
Learn how your partner likes to be loved
Easy questions sit beside the bigger ones
Three categories: Values, Day to Day, Intimacy

Specs

Deck: 150 cards, 3 categories, cards 5.75 × 8 cm, premium cardboard with gold foil
Deck box: 7 × 7.5 × 8.5 cm
Recommended for adults (18+)

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Real reviews

Your questions, answered by couples

Real reviews from real customers, picked to answer the questions couples ask us most.

4.9 average rating

Some topics are hard to raise
…excellent for bringing up topics we haven't thought to talk through or topics that we have been avoiding because they were a bit tough to raise.
Susan W.Forever Deck
We've already talked about the big stuff
It is awesome, they are really good to get conversation flowing again or consider things you might not of before. Enjoying them with my husband.
Sam L.Forever Deck
Will it bring us closer?
These cards are exactly what they say they are! Helped my parter and I feel connected with a great range of questions.
Emily L.Forever Deck
Is it good quality?
Brilliant thought prompting idea. Quick and easy delivery. Great quality packaging
Josh H.Forever Deck
Will it make a good gift?
These cards are beautiful, amazing quality, and helpful questions to reconnect.
Olga R.Forever Deck

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In their words

What couples say about the Forever Deck

Inside the box

Try a few real cards

Some questions are big-picture, so this deck suits couples thinking about the future. Together for a few months? The Dating or Go Deeper Deck might be a better first fit.

Forever Deck

After we have a big argument, what do you need from me to feel better and truly put it behind us? (For example, a calm talk, an apology, a hug, or just some space?)

Values & Communication

Forever Deck

Thoughtful, practical, future-focused

The big conversations: money, family, roles and your future.

150 cards
3 categories

Is this you?

Sound familiar?

We just got engaged and want to get it right.
Money, kids, where to live: we haven't really talked.
Some topics feel too awkward to raise.
We're moving in and want to start on the same page.
I want to know what they actually need from me.
We assume we agree, but we've never checked.

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	Go Deeper Deck	Reconnect Deck	Laughter Deck	Forever Deck You're here	Dating Deck
Best for	Long-term couples who want to learn something new	Couples who've drifted and want to feel close again	Fun nights in, as a couple or with adult friends	Engaged couples and newlyweds	New couples and early dates
Vibe	Curious, nostalgic, deep	Honest, deep, warm	Cheeky, bold, silly	Thoughtful, practical, future-focused	Flirty, curious, revealing
How deep it goes	Light to deep	Leans deep, on purpose	Light and cheeky	Everyday to big-picture	Light to getting serious
The 3 categories	Now & Then · Looking ahead · Uncharted territory	Rediscover & reflect · Envision & evolve · Recommit & refresh	Icebreakers · Confessions & Curiosities · Boundary Pushers	Values & Communication · Day to Day · Intimacy & Wellness	Light & Lively · Passions & Perspectives · Future Hints & Relationship Intentions
Great for groups?	Made for couples	Made for couples	Yes, with adult friends	Made for couples	Made for two
Pairs well with	Laughter	Go Deeper	Go Deeper or Forever	Laughter	Laughter
Questions	150	150	150	150	150

For long-term couples

Go Deeper Deck

Best for: Long-term couples who want to learn something new
Vibe: Curious, nostalgic, deep
How deep it goes: Light to deep
The 3 categories: Now & Then · Looking ahead · Uncharted territory
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

For feeling close again

Reconnect Deck

Best for: Couples who've drifted and want to feel close again
Vibe: Honest, deep, warm
How deep it goes: Leans deep, on purpose
The 3 categories: Rediscover & reflect · Envision & evolve · Recommit & refresh
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Go Deeper
Questions: 150

For fun nights in

Laughter Deck

Best for: Fun nights in, as a couple or with adult friends
Vibe: Cheeky, bold, silly
How deep it goes: Light and cheeky
The 3 categories: Icebreakers · Confessions & Curiosities · Boundary Pushers
Great for groups?: Yes, with adult friends
Pairs well with: Go Deeper or Forever
Questions: 150

For engaged couples

Forever Deck

You're here

Best for: Engaged couples and newlyweds
Vibe: Thoughtful, practical, future-focused
How deep it goes: Everyday to big-picture
The 3 categories: Values & Communication · Day to Day · Intimacy & Wellness
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

For new couples

Dating Deck

Best for: New couples and early dates
Vibe: Flirty, curious, revealing
How deep it goes: Light to getting serious
The 3 categories: Light & Lively · Passions & Perspectives · Future Hints & Relationship Intentions
Great for groups?: Made for two
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

How it's built

The EMBRACE™ System

Every Pakk is built on EMBRACE™, our psychology-backed map of seven parts of a close relationship.

E for Emotional intimacy:

Feel known and understood by each other.
M for Mental stimulation:

Keep discovering how each other thinks.
B for Boundaries + alignment:

Get clear on what you each need and expect.
- Forever
R for Rituals:

Make regular room for each other, without big plans.
A for Appreciation:

Feel noticed and valued for the little things.
C for Communication clarity:

Find the words for what matters.
- Forever
E for Exploration + play:

Have fun and try new things together.

How it works

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up
Pick a quiet moment, any night of the week.
Step 2: Pick a card
Read a card aloud and take turns answering.
Step 3: Take turns
Stay light or go deeper when it feels right.
Step 4: Keep going
Use the little extras to act on what you learn.

Good to know

Good questions, answered

Do the questions go deep?

Some do, on purpose. Every deck starts light, so you choose how far to go.

What if my partner isn't keen?

Start with a light card and take turns. Some of our favourite reviews started that way.

How long does a Pakk night take?

One card can take five minutes. Some nights it turns into hours.

Can we keep using it?

Yes. There are 150 questions, and your answers change as life does.

Is the Forever Deck heavy?

Some questions are, like money and family plans. Plenty are light, like the little things that make you feel loved. Start with Day to Day and go at your own pace.

All reviews

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Laura W.

Quick shipping, perfect gift for couples.

Olga R.

These cards are beautiful, amazing quality, and helpful questions to reconnect.

Sam L.

It is awesome, they are really good to get conversation flowing again or consider things you might not of before. Enjoying them with my husband.

Josh H.

Brilliant thought prompting idea. Quick and easy delivery. Great quality packaging

Emily L.

These cards are exactly what they say they are! Helped my parter and I feel connected with a great range of questions.

Susan W.

My partner and I have just gotten engaged. The pack questions (Forever Pack) have been excellent for bringing up topics we haven’t thought to talk through or topics that we have been avoiding because they were a bit tough to raise. The quality of the product is excellent and I love that the product and packaging are all natural paper/card. The cards were delivered really quickly and in perfect condition. This company really cares about its product. Give it a try - your relationship can only benefit from it.

Mya R.

Absolutely love these! Purchased the Forever Deck for our honeymoon

Alice M.

I’m newly engaged and bought the Forever Deck cards so that my fiancé and I could talk about important topics that we might not have thought about. We read a few cards over dinner and had some insightful conversations. A few of the topics we had already discussed prior to getting engaged but it was nice to go over it again and reaffirm that we’re still on the same page. We felt closer and more connected afterwards and we’ll definitely be making this a regular date night! Would make a great gift for newly engaged couples or a wedding gift!

Yvonne C.

These should be required for all couples.

Sigourney L.

Beautiful box and cards, really high quality! WOw! These are not your average conversation cards - they feel like an art piece. I'll be honest, we only got these a few days ago and haven't used them yet but I just like looking at them for now :)

Suzanne V.

We have made this a cute Sunday night ritual over dinner to take a break from wedding planning. My parents encouraged me to get these so we get on the same page and it's been quite nice.

Vanessa E.

It sparked a proper chat about expectations around household roles, and turns out we had really different views. This gave us a way to figure it out before it turned into a problem down the track.

Meredith

Not to be dramatic but this is by far the best wedding gift we got and we're obsessed.

Keith P.

i was worried it would be too intense but the pacing is really smart. it starts light and builds trust. my partner actually asked if we could do another round the next day. lol

Rachel M.

These were a little heavy for us, maybe better for couples who are further along in the relationship.

DIane

nice packaging. a gift and we like them. good questions

Jesse L.

The first time I brought these out I got lots of moaning. But guess who asks to use them now? Yep, the one moaning. We love them - it's helped us get some structure around how we want our lives to look together and some of these things we'd have enver thought to talk about. Recommend

Tyler A.

my wife got these for our daughter. we say all the time how much we can't beleive people commit to each other when they're young without talking about the big stuff like kids and money. wake up people. when the love fades, you have to like each other and it's hard to do that when you aren't aligned. I think pakks is doing a great thing by making these available for young couples who want to be defacto partners. very clever. well done. - Tyler A from SYdney

Erin W.

It looiks like most people get these when they're getting married but my girlfriend and I are just moving in together and wanted to cover off some of the bigger topics, especially finance. I have girlfriends who didn't have those chats and it really caused them issues down the line. I hope these will help us be more prepared. I'll update after we use them!

G L

I’m a wedding photographer and I now include this in my gift box for couples. Everyone loves it. It’s like giving them a little toolkit for forever.

Sarah

Honestly this should come standard with every wedding registry. It’s like relationship insurance haha.

John J.

We thought we were aligned on everything until this deck raised questions about family roles, boundaries with in-laws, things like that. Turns out we weren’t quite on the same page—but now we are.

Jessica G.

These are so beautiful. We have other cards kind of similar but the questions in this one are really good and ask questions that you actually should talk about. Fast shipping.

Jolie

This was a gift from my maid of honor and it honestly made me tear up. Feels like something every couple should do before they get married.

Jamie

Honestly, we didn’t realise how many assumptions we were both making about “the future.” This deck brought up stuff we hadn’t actually talked about—like where we want to live long term, or how we’d handle money if we had kids. Super eye-opening.

Alex

This deck is now my go-to gift for every engagement or wedding. It’s something they’ll actually remember & use—not just toss in a drawer.

CAsey

not sure these are for everyone but important topics

Kathleen P.

We’re getting married next year and I wanted to make sure we were communicating properly. This deck brought up some hard but important topics. I feel like we’ve now had conversations most couples avoid until things start falling apart.

Karl P.

Hard to believe some people don't talk about this stuff before they spend their lives together. It'll be nice to use these over th years to check in. Got these as a gift from a mate for our engagement and me and my partner think they're great. Really these should be required for all couples who get married. SOme heavy stuff in there but it's good to tlak about

Jimmy C.

Got as a gift and we like them

Amber W.

We’re doing premarital counselling & this deck hits most of the same points, but in a way that feels natural & less clinical..

Paige F.

These are so cute! Me and my partner got these as a gift when we got engaged and we didn't use them for a while. We took a break from wedding planning last night and opepned these up with some wine and realised how many things we hadn't talked through. But it's been so nice, we've been able to talk about something other than the wedding and a few things will probably save us a fight down the road. Recommend!

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Forever Deck

Build your set

Your questions, answered by couples

Some topics are hard to raise

We've already talked about the big stuff

Will it bring us closer?

Is it good quality?

Will it make a good gift?

What couples say about the Forever Deck

Try a few real cards

Forever Deck

Sound familiar?

Compare Decks

Go Deeper Deck

Reconnect Deck

Laughter Deck

Forever Deck

Dating Deck

The EMBRACE™ System

EE for Emotional intimacy: Emotional intimacy

MM for Mental stimulation: Mental stimulation

BB for Boundaries + alignment: Boundaries + alignment

RR for Rituals: Rituals

AA for Appreciation: Appreciation

CC for Communication clarity: Communication clarity

EE for Exploration + play: Exploration + play

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up

Step 2: Pick a card

Step 3: Take turns

Step 4: Keep going

Good questions, answered

Hear from more couples

More from Between Us

Weekly Relationship Check-In: Questions Every Couple Should Ask

How to Communicate Better in Your Relationship

The Best Gifts for Couples Who Have Everything

E for Emotional intimacy:

M for Mental stimulation:

B for Boundaries + alignment:

R for Rituals:

A for Appreciation:

C for Communication clarity:

E for Exploration + play: