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For couples who want to know each other better

Go Deeper Deck

You know each other well, but there's always more to find. 150 questions take you from easy favourites to the things you've never quite asked.

150 questions
3 categories, light to deeper
Premium packaging
Gift-ready

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Learn something new, even after years together
Starts light, so nobody feels put on the spot
Turns a quiet dinner into a real conversation
Three categories: Now & Then, Looking ahead, Uncharted territory

Specs

Deck: 150 cards, 3 categories, cards 5.75 × 8 cm, premium cardboard with gold foil
Deck box: 7 × 7.5 × 8.5 cm
Recommended for adults (18+)

Shipping & returns

Australia: free shipping on orders over $100 · usually 4–8 business days
30-day connection promise · How returns work

Want the extras too? See the Pakk this deck comes in: Stay Curious Connection Pakk · Back to Us Connection Pakk

Real reviews

Your questions, answered by couples

Real reviews from real customers, picked to answer the questions couples ask us most.

4.9 average rating

We've been together forever
We are really enjoying the pakks - after 40 years together its like a rediscovery tour x
TraceyGo Deeper Deck
We already talk about everything
The cards were great conversation starters and helped us delve into some topics we had not discussed in years.
Gary T.Go Deeper Deck
Will we actually use it?
Enjoy the cards. Gets us laughing every time we use them
veronica s.Go Deeper Deck
We're too busy for this
nice to have cards to start the chat and make time for each other
Michelle S.Go Deeper Deck
Will it help us really talk?
Has opened up lines of communication that have needed to be opened which were not available to us till now, thank you!
Arahi T.Go Deeper Deck
Is it good quality?
…Love the packaging, the box is lovely & the questions are interesting. very happy.
Theresa M.Go Deeper Deck

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In their words

What couples say about the Go Deeper Deck

Inside the box

Try a few real cards

Go Deeper Deck

What’s something you hope we never lose sight of, no matter how busy or successful we become?

Now & Then

Go Deeper Deck

Curious, nostalgic, deep

Questions that move past small talk, from light to bold.

150 cards
3 categories
3 spice levels

Is this you?

Sound familiar?

We talk every day, but mostly about logistics.
I feel like I already know all their answers.
Date night ends up with us on our phones.
We've been together years and want that curiosity back.
I want deeper talks without making it a big thing.
We never know what to ask beyond "how was your day?"

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Five decks, five moods. Here's how they compare.

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	Go Deeper Deck You're here	Reconnect Deck	Laughter Deck	Forever Deck	Dating Deck
Best for	Long-term couples who want to learn something new	Couples who've drifted and want to feel close again	Fun nights in, as a couple or with adult friends	Engaged couples and newlyweds	New couples and early dates
Vibe	Curious, nostalgic, deep	Honest, deep, warm	Cheeky, bold, silly	Thoughtful, practical, future-focused	Flirty, curious, revealing
How deep it goes	Light to deep	Leans deep, on purpose	Light and cheeky	Everyday to big-picture	Light to getting serious
The 3 categories	Now & Then · Looking ahead · Uncharted territory	Rediscover & reflect · Envision & evolve · Recommit & refresh	Icebreakers · Confessions & Curiosities · Boundary Pushers	Values & Communication · Day to Day · Intimacy & Wellness	Light & Lively · Passions & Perspectives · Future Hints & Relationship Intentions
Great for groups?	Made for couples	Made for couples	Yes, with adult friends	Made for couples	Made for two
Pairs well with	Laughter	Go Deeper	Go Deeper or Forever	Laughter	Laughter
Questions	150	150	150	150	150

For long-term couples

Go Deeper Deck

You're here

Best for: Long-term couples who want to learn something new
Vibe: Curious, nostalgic, deep
How deep it goes: Light to deep
The 3 categories: Now & Then · Looking ahead · Uncharted territory
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

For feeling close again

Reconnect Deck

Best for: Couples who've drifted and want to feel close again
Vibe: Honest, deep, warm
How deep it goes: Leans deep, on purpose
The 3 categories: Rediscover & reflect · Envision & evolve · Recommit & refresh
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Go Deeper
Questions: 150

For fun nights in

Laughter Deck

Best for: Fun nights in, as a couple or with adult friends
Vibe: Cheeky, bold, silly
How deep it goes: Light and cheeky
The 3 categories: Icebreakers · Confessions & Curiosities · Boundary Pushers
Great for groups?: Yes, with adult friends
Pairs well with: Go Deeper or Forever
Questions: 150

For engaged couples

Forever Deck

Best for: Engaged couples and newlyweds
Vibe: Thoughtful, practical, future-focused
How deep it goes: Everyday to big-picture
The 3 categories: Values & Communication · Day to Day · Intimacy & Wellness
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

For new couples

Dating Deck

Best for: New couples and early dates
Vibe: Flirty, curious, revealing
How deep it goes: Light to getting serious
The 3 categories: Light & Lively · Passions & Perspectives · Future Hints & Relationship Intentions
Great for groups?: Made for two
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

How it's built

The EMBRACE™ System

Every Pakk is built on EMBRACE™, our psychology-backed map of seven parts of a close relationship.

E for Emotional intimacy:

Feel known and understood by each other.
- Go Deeper
M for Mental stimulation:

Keep discovering how each other thinks.
- Go Deeper
B for Boundaries + alignment:

Get clear on what you each need and expect.
R for Rituals:

Make regular room for each other, without big plans.
A for Appreciation:

Feel noticed and valued for the little things.
C for Communication clarity:

Find the words for what matters.
E for Exploration + play:

Have fun and try new things together.

How it works

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up
Pick a quiet moment, any night of the week.
Step 2: Pick a card
Read a card aloud and take turns answering.
Step 3: Take turns
Stay light or go deeper when it feels right.
Step 4: Keep going
Use the little extras to act on what you learn.

Good to know

Good questions, answered

Do the questions go deep?

Some do, on purpose. Every deck starts light, so you choose how far to go.

What if my partner isn't keen?

Start with a light card and take turns. Some of our favourite reviews started that way.

How long does a Pakk night take?

One card can take five minutes. Some nights it turns into hours.

Can we keep using it?

Yes. There are 150 questions, and your answers change as life does.

How deep do the questions go?

It's up to you. Now & Then is easy and warm, Looking ahead gets more thoughtful, and Uncharted territory is for when you're both ready to open up.

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Lauren S.

Fantastic idea & I am looking forward to participating on my next date night.. I won’t looks at then until then

veronica s.

Enjoy the cards. Gets us laughing every time we use them

Melissa R.

These cards are great fun. They have prompted some great conversations.

Adam I.

Good product, happy.

Tracey

We are really enjoying the pakks - after 40 years together its like a rediscovery tour x

Carina T.

Packaging is beautiful ❤️

Theresa M.

The Go Deeper Deck is great, we have used it already & are very happy with it. Love the packaging, the box is lovely & the questions are interesting. very happy.

Emma S.

My order arrived on time and is beautifully presented. Although my husband and I have not had a chance to use the cards yet…we r very much looking forward to. Thank you

Keesha

Great cards!

Damon M.

The Go Deeper deck is great - my partner & I used it for the first time on the weekend. Some thought provoking questions and discussion points. One point of feedback - we were astonished that a deck designed to provide thoughtful, genuine, meaningful personal discussions suffered from cringe-inducing "corporate-speak" phrases such as "lean into", however. Why?!? This isn't a marketing think-tank discussion in a boardroom. We found it quite a turn-off, to be perfectly frank - and we don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings! This aside, would be great if tabs or dividers of some sort could be included for the different Spice Levels. Thanks.

Gary T.

The cards were great conversation starters and helped us delve into some topics we had not discussed in years. Great to have them at dinner with a glass of wine. Thank you!

Olga R.

These are great to start conversations in difficult times.

Misty R.

The packs are great conversation starters

Michelle S.

nice to have cards to start the chat and make time for each other

Robert O.

Quality product and quality service

Arahi T.

Has opened up lines of communication that have needed to be opened which were not available to us till now, thank you!

lisa a.

very easy ordering, fabulous follow up service. Would definitely use again

Timothy P.

Like it

David S.

We love this product , the cards are a terrific way to have a meaningful discussion.

Kevin E.

Thank you, very happy. Merry Christmas

Anne P.

So much fun

Michael M.

Great item

Christine D.

It’s a Xmas present so will see but looks like a great idea

Matthew C.

havnt sed them yet, but looking forward to it

Janelle C.

Fast delivery and great questions for deep conversations! Janelle Australia

Stephen B.

Never received my package, nobody replied to my email or my FB messages. Extremely disappointed. This is a scam business or doesn’t care about customer satisfaction.

Rod J.

Great selection of questions. Turned up quickly.

Sharon G.

Super fast postage and the cards are awesome we are loving them so far

Mrs D.

Love this idea. Really is a great way of getting that conversation going. Highly recommend, great service. Thank you

Andrew T.

excellent thanks

Tristan B.

I am very impressed with the Pakks products. They are very cleverly thought through and will provide great conversation whether deep discussion between partners or friendly banter between friends. The packaging and design is very crisp and well thought through, I am very happy with the products and would highly recommend to others thinking about purchasing. 5/5 !

Lindsey L.

been using it during our date nights. we love them :)

Thomas M.

perfect for reconnecting after a busy week when you only get to talk about the immediate problems. you kinda forget what it's like to have those deep and meaningfuls that you had at the start hey

Selena D.

I don't usually write reviews, but these really made an impression on me. Not only are they beautiful so we can leave them sitting around, but it makes connection feel easy, even after long days when we're both wrecked. I just love how these questions are different to some of the ones we've used before. Nice work Pakks, we just ordered the Dating Deck to revisit our misspent youth haha

alison

I’d been following Pakks on Instagram and dropped a hint, so my boyfriend surprised me with this deck. Best. Gift. Ever. We have a little ritual now—Sunday mornings, coffee in bed, one card each. It’s become this grounding little moment where we get to slow down and check in without it feeling forced. So thoughtful and honestly fun too.

John C.

i wish we had this sooner. might’ve avoided some fights

Michele J.

Beautifully made, good quality, fast shipping. No complaints

Jeremy W.

this helped me explain things i didn’t even know how to say before. huge for us. my partner is always saying i'm bad at communicating so she was loving it

angus

Love taking these with us to dinner. After you've been together for a while, let's be real, you run out of things to say. I loved that I got to hear some stories about my girlfriend that I hadn't heard before.

amanda o

Honestly I was nervous to bring this out. My partner isn’t usually into “structured” stuff like this, but I read one of the cards aloud just to test it and he answered straight away. Then he pulled the next one. We ended up talking for over an hour. It made me feel like we were dating again—curious, playful, connected. It’s such a small thing but the impact is huge.

Matt

a few questions hit a bit too close to home lol but probably needed to be said tbh.

David W.

we’re not big talkers usually but this made it so much easier to open up

Joanna L.

One of the best gifts we received for our wedding. We used it on our honeymoon during a rainy day indoors and it turned into one of our favorite memories from the trip. We still laugh about a couple of the answers. It’s beautiful, well-designed, and way more emotionally impactful than it has any right to be. Don’t sleep on this.

Wanda S.

Cute and easy to carry around - love the packaging. I think these would make a really nice gift too

Damo

some questions felt like therapy but in a good way. not too intense just... real. I like these bettert than some of the other decks we've tried before.

Amber B.

we used it on a road trip and talked the entire way. felt so connected by the time we got there

Remi

We got this as a gift from a couple friend who swore by it—and now I get why. It’s not just cute packaging (though the box is stunning), the questions are actually really clever. Some are deep, some made us laugh, and one made me cry a little in the middle of brunch. It created space for conversations we didn’t even know we needed. Already planning to gift it to two other couples.

Jannah

this deck is GORGEOUS. like actually looks so good on the table + makes us look like we have our life together lol!! I think I've had about 100 people ask me where these are from

Katie A.

I bought this for my partner for our anniversary after we both admitted things felt a little surface-level lately. We went away for the weekend and took the deck with us—ended up staying up til 2am just talking. We even skipped the movie we planned to watch. Felt like we re-met each other. Highly recommend, especially if you’re feeling a bit emotionally out of sync.

Thomas P.

we pull a card every sunday morning with coffee and it’s become our little ritual love it

Chad H.

the questions are surprisingly deep but not scary. like we laughed but also had some 'oh wow' moments

Shell

This was actually a gift from my best friend who knows we’ve been together forever but kinda hit that autopilot phase. At first I was like “conversation cards??” but we tried them one night with a glass of wine and it was genuinely amazing. We started light but ended up talking about stuff we hadn’t brought up in years. It wasn’t heavy, it just… flowed. Honestly one of the most thoughtful gifts we’ve ever received.

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Your questions, answered by couples

We've been together forever

We already talk about everything

Will we actually use it?

We're too busy for this

Will it help us really talk?

Is it good quality?

What couples say about the Go Deeper Deck

Try a few real cards

Go Deeper Deck

Sound familiar?

Compare Decks

Go Deeper Deck

Reconnect Deck

Laughter Deck

Forever Deck

Dating Deck

The EMBRACE™ System

E for Emotional intimacy:

M for Mental stimulation:

B for Boundaries + alignment:

R for Rituals:

A for Appreciation:

C for Communication clarity:

E for Exploration + play:

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up

Step 2: Pick a card

Step 3: Take turns

Step 4: Keep going

Good questions, answered

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Go Deeper Deck

Build your set

Your questions, answered by couples

We've been together forever

We already talk about everything

Will we actually use it?

We're too busy for this

Will it help us really talk?

Is it good quality?

What couples say about the Go Deeper Deck

Try a few real cards

Go Deeper Deck

Sound familiar?

Compare Decks

Go Deeper Deck

Reconnect Deck

Laughter Deck

Forever Deck

Dating Deck

The EMBRACE™ System

EE for Emotional intimacy: Emotional intimacy

MM for Mental stimulation: Mental stimulation

BB for Boundaries + alignment: Boundaries + alignment

RR for Rituals: Rituals

AA for Appreciation: Appreciation

CC for Communication clarity: Communication clarity

EE for Exploration + play: Exploration + play

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up

Step 2: Pick a card

Step 3: Take turns

Step 4: Keep going

Good questions, answered

Hear from more couples

More from Between Us

The Spark Doesn't Die. You Stop Fanning It.

Deep Questions to Ask Your Partner (100+ That Actually Spark Connection)

12 Date Night Ideas at Home That Don't Feel Boring

E for Emotional intimacy:

M for Mental stimulation:

B for Boundaries + alignment:

R for Rituals:

A for Appreciation:

C for Communication clarity:

E for Exploration + play: