The Original Pakk
Back to Us Connection Pakk
A couples connection set that brings you closer, using psychology-backed conversation cards made for your stage, activity coupons and Appreciation Notes. Feel like a team again, even in busy weeks.
- Remember why you fell for each other
- Talk about real things, without a big talk
- Small gestures that show you're both still trying
- Swap "how was your day? fine" for real answers
Reconnect DeckHonest, deep, warmWorth $49
Go Deeper DeckCurious, nostalgic, deepWorth $49
Get Closer Coupon KitThoughtful, caring gesturesWorth $29
Appreciation NotesSay what you loveWorth $24
*Packed gift-ready in a premium keepsake box
$170 value
You pay $115 Save $55
Ready to ship
- Free shipping · 4–8 business days
- 30-day connection promise
- Sold out 7x
Specs
- Keepsake box: 23 × 25.5 × 9.5 cm, magnetic closure, gold foil
- Two decks: 150 cards each, 3 categories
- Deck box: 7 × 7.5 × 8.5 cm
- Cards: 5.75 × 8 cm, premium cardboard, gold foil
- Get Closer Coupon Kit: 20 coupons
- Appreciation Notes: 30 notes
- Recommended for adults (18+)
Shipping & returns
- Free shipping · 4–8 business days
- 30-day connection promise · How returns work
Real reviews
Your questions, answered by couples
Real reviews from real customers, picked to answer the questions couples ask us most.
4.9 average rating
My partner won't be into it
…Thankfully, my husband was willing to give it a go and it's been a lovely way to remember why we were attracted to one another 16 years ago…
Ms L.Reconnect Deck We're too busy for this
…After having 2 kids we don't get much time spent with each other and now on Friday nights we share some cards with each other…
Mitch H.Reconnect Deck Will he actually join in?
…She pulls the cards out whenever I'm engrossed in a good action type movie. … relearning how to be a patient, loving husband is something I never expected to experience at my time of life..
ROGER R.Reconnect Deck Too heavy for us?
…I like the easy to more challenging questions, it's very engaging, entertaining and thought provoking.
Jacqui O.Reconnect Deck We're always on our phones
…Less screen time and more meaningful time spent together.
Ashley G.Reconnect Deck Will it help us really talk?
Has opened up lines of communication that have needed to be opened which were not available to us till now, thank you!
Arahi T.Go Deeper Deck
In their words
What couples say about the Back to Us Connection Pakk
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Compare Pakk sizes
 Mini Pakk | Most popular  The Original Pakk You're here | Best for gifting  Ultimate | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Price |
| From |
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| Decks | 1 | 2 | 4 |
| Questions | 150 | 300 | 600 |
| Includes small gestures? | No | Yes | Yes |
| Travel pouch? | Yes | No | No |
| Gift-ready? | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Keepsake box? | No | Yes | Yes |
| Free shipping | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Best for | One deck with light extras | A balanced collection, tailored to your relationship | Our most complete collection of every customer favorite |
| Choose the Mini | Explore All Original Pakks | Choose the Ultimate |
Mini Pakk
$80 value
You pay $69 Save $11
Best for: One deck with light extras
- Decks1
- Questions150
- Includes small gestures?No
- Travel pouch?Yes
- Gift-ready?Yes
- Keepsake box?No
- Free shippingYes
The Original Pakk
You're here
From $165 value You pay $115 Save up to $55
Best for: A balanced collection, tailored to your relationship
- Decks2
- Questions300
- Includes small gestures?Yes
- Travel pouch?No
- Gift-ready?Yes
- Keepsake box?Yes
- Free shippingYes
Ultimate
$287 value
You pay $179 Save $108
Best for: Our most complete collection of every customer favorite
- Decks4
- Questions600
- Includes small gestures?Yes
- Travel pouch?No
- Gift-ready?Yes
- Keepsake box?Yes
- Free shippingYes
Is this you?
Sound familiar?
You mostly talk logistics: pickups, bills, who's cooking.
Start with one card and talk about you two instead.
By the time the kids are asleep, you're both exhausted.
One question is enough, even on a ten-minute night.
You keep saying "we should do something," then don't.
The coupons turn "we should" into an actual plan.
There's something you want to bring up, gently.
Reconnect gives you a soft way in to the bigger stuff.
You miss feeling like a team.
Small gestures and good questions help bring that back.
A new baby has changed everything, including you two.
Made for new parents finding their feet as a couple.
Inside the box
What each piece is for
Reconnect Deck
If one of us notices the other slipping into old habits (like dismissiveness or stonewalling), how should we respectfully call it out so we can correct course immediately?
Recommit & refresh
Reconnect Deck
Honest, deep, warm
Gentle questions for talking about what you each need.
- 150 cards
- 3 categories
Worth $49
Go Deeper Deck
What’s something you hope we never lose sight of, no matter how busy or successful we become?
Now & Then
Go Deeper Deck
Curious, nostalgic, deep
Questions that move past small talk, from light to bold.
- 150 cards
- 3 categories
- 3 spice levels
Worth $49
Get Closer Coupon Kit
Thoughtful, caring gestures
20 thoughtful coupons, like phone-free time or a lighter load.
- Gold foil
- Rigid box
Worth $29
Appreciation Notes
Say what you love
30 prompted notes for saying what you love about them.
- Premium cardstock
- Gold foil box
Worth $24
Magnetic keepsake box
Made to stay out
Keeps it all together, and looks lovely on the coffee table.
- Premium finishing
- Gifting done easy
How it's built
The EMBRACE™ System
Every Pakk is built on EMBRACE™, our psychology-backed map of seven parts of a close relationship.
E for Emotional intimacy:
Feel known and understood by each other.
- Reconnect
- Go Deeper
M for Mental stimulation:
Keep discovering how each other thinks.
- Go Deeper
B for Boundaries + alignment:
Get clear on what you each need and expect.
- Reconnect
R for Rituals:
Make regular room for each other, without big plans.
- Get Closer
- Keepsake box
A for Appreciation:
Feel noticed and valued for the little things.
- Get Closer
- Appreciation Notes
C for Communication clarity:
Find the words for what matters.
- Reconnect
E for Exploration + play:
Have fun and try new things together.
How it works
How a Pakk night works
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Step 1: Open up
Pick a quiet moment, any night of the week.
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Step 2: Pick a card
Read a card aloud and take turns answering.
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Step 3: Take turns
Stay light or go deeper when it feels right.
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Step 4: Keep going
Use the little extras to act on what you learn.
Good to know
Good questions, answered
Do the questions go deep?
Some do, on purpose. Every deck starts light, so you choose how far to go.
What if my partner isn't keen?
Start with a light card and take turns. Some of our favorite reviews started that way.
How long does a Pakk night take?
One card can take five minutes. Some nights it turns into hours.
Can we keep using it?
Yes. There are 300 questions, and your answers change as life does.
Is it a good gift?
Yes. It arrives hand-packed in the keepsake box, ready to give.
Is it only for couples having problems?
No. It's for busy seasons too, whenever you want to feel close again.
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