Stay Curious Connection Pakk
For couples who want to keep discovering each other
$165 value
You pay $115 Save $50
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Conversation decks plus little extras, chosen for your stage. Pick a Mini, an Original, or have it all with the Ultimate.
- Free shipping on every order
- 30-day connection promise
- Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
- 15,000+ sold
- Sold out 7x
The Original Pakks
Most popular
Three themes. Same balanced collection. Pick the one that fits your relationship right now.
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Back to Us Connection Pakk
For busy couples who want to feel close again
Choose Back to Us$170 valueYou pay $115 Save $55 -
Happily Ever After Connection Pakk
For engaged couples and newlyweds
Choose Happily Ever After$170 valueYou pay $115 Save $55
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Ultimate Connection Pakk
Our most complete collection
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Real reviews
Your questions, answered by couples
4.9 average rating
My partner won't be into it
…Now, my husband wasn't thrilled when I first brought them out, but we had such a good time once we started using them.
Di via Instagram We're too busy for this
…After having 2 kids we don't get much time spent with each other and now on Friday nights we share some cards with each other…
Mitch H. Reconnect Deck Some topics are hard to raise
…excellent for bringing up topics we haven't thought to talk through or topics that we have been avoiding because they were a bit tough to raise.
Susan W. Forever Deck
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Compare Pakk sizes
Not sure which one? Here's how the Pakks compare.
 Mini Pakk | Most popular The Original Pakk | Best for gifting  Ultimate | |
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| Price |
| From |
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| Decks | 1 | 2 | 4 |
| Questions | 150 | 300 | 600 |
| Includes small gestures? | No | Yes | Yes |
| Travel pouch? | Yes | No | No |
| Gift-ready? | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Keepsake box? | No | Yes | Yes |
| Free shipping | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Best for | One deck with light extras | A balanced collection, tailored to your relationship | Our most complete collection of every customer favorite |
| Choose the Mini | Explore All Original Pakks | Choose the Ultimate |
Mini Pakk
$80 value
You pay $69 Save $11
Best for: One deck with light extras
- Decks1
- Questions150
- Includes small gestures?No
- Travel pouch?Yes
- Gift-ready?Yes
- Keepsake box?No
- Free shippingYes
The Original Pakk
From $165 value You pay $115 Save up to $55
Best for: A balanced collection, tailored to your relationship
- Decks2
- Questions300
- Includes small gestures?Yes
- Travel pouch?No
- Gift-ready?Yes
- Keepsake box?Yes
- Free shippingYes
Ultimate
$287 value
You pay $179 Save $108
Best for: Our most complete collection of every customer favorite
- Decks4
- Questions600
- Includes small gestures?Yes
- Travel pouch?No
- Gift-ready?Yes
- Keepsake box?Yes
- Free shippingYes
Why it works
We built Pakks on what relationship research says helps people feel close. Here's the short version.
Closeness grows a little at a time
In a well-known study, people who answered gradually deeper questions felt closer than people who stuck to small talk. That's why every deck starts light and gets deeper as you go.
Aron et al., 1997
Feeling close takes two people
Researchers following everyday conversations found closeness grows when one person opens up and the other responds with care. So every card is a turn to share and a turn to listen.
Laurenceau, Barrett & Pietromonaco, 1998
Small rituals add up
Couples who share little rituals report feeling happier and more committed, especially when they both agree on what the ritual means to them. One card over Sunday coffee counts.
Garcia-Rada, Sezer & Norton, 2019
How it's built
The EMBRACE™ System
Every Pakk is built on EMBRACE™, our psychology-backed map of seven parts of a close relationship.
E for Emotional intimacy:
Feel known and understood by each other.
- Go Deeper
- Reconnect
M for Mental stimulation:
Keep discovering how each other thinks.
- Go Deeper
- Laughter
B for Boundaries + alignment:
Get clear on what you each need and expect.
- Reconnect
- Forever
R for Rituals:
Make regular room for each other, without big plans.
- Decision Dice
- Keepsake box
A for Appreciation:
Feel noticed and valued for the little things.
- Appreciation Notes
- Keep It Cute
C for Communication clarity:
Find the words for what matters.
- Reconnect
- Forever
E for Exploration + play:
Have fun and try new things together.
- Laughter
- Keep It Cute
- Decision Dice